WHO TO INVITE
Generally, it is a good idea to invite a mixture of people with different levels of experience. Long-time swingers can bring much-valued knowledge and experience whilst newbie's are eager to explore new experiences. The easiest way to find open and like-minded people is to search through the listings on RedHotPie. Whether by age range or member type, you can start sending out invites to hundred of sexy couples and singles in your area right away. Consider posting in the Parties and Events section in RedHotPie for instant results. The essential truth: the more the merrier! Always invite more than you think you can cater for as the inevitable unforeseen circumstance will force guests to pull out at the last minute.

WHAT TO SAY
Let people know when and where it will be so they can keep a spot open in their diaries. Make sure you also specify what kind of party you're intending to host so that they have some idea what to expect. If it's a pool party, tell them to bring their best Hawaiian beachwear, if it's a costume party set a sexy theme, e.g. uniforms, fetish, lingerie. For many the idea of a sex party can be intimidating so make it clear that it will be a no pressure environment and they can leave at any time.

SETTING IT UP
Most people (even long time swingers) will probably be turned off by the sound of a sex party that sounds sleazy in the slightest! If you're hosting the party at your house forget the lava lamps and psychedelic shag carpets of the 70s. Instead, strive to dazzle the individual's aesthetic senses by creating a classy atmosphere with the use of stylish lighting and great tunes. Our recommendations for your audio entertainment:
For a sensual, relaxed feel try Café del Mar or some Lounge music. Going for a hyped-up party atmosphere? Contemporary beats with the like of this season's Ministry of Sound collection or a great party band like Jurassic 5 or Herbaliser to get the whole crowd pumping.

WHEN TO START
Though most of the 'action' so to speak will most likely happen later in the night, it's best to get the party started earlier in the evening around say 8-9pm so that people get a chance to mingle with each other on a social level before anything sexual eventuates. Allowing your guests adequate time to get appropriately inebriated can only be a good thing. This brings me to the next subject….

ALCOHOL
On this last point it is essential to state on your invite whether alcohol will be provided or whether you are planning a BYO. If you are intending to provide alcohol, avoid kegs and slabs of beer: this will inevitably result in war-bands forming around the beer and the night might fall prey to drunken antics not out of place at leavers or a toga party. To ensure there is enough alcohol to go around amongst both sexes, invest heavily in the more feminine drinks: strawberry daiquiris, tropical illusions and the like. Only men who are comfortable with their sexuality will even think about drinking them, thus ensuring sufficient drinks for the night.

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